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2019 9th Annual Father's Day Golf Outing

2019 KofC Golf Registration Form
 

A great way to get Dad out in the sun on Father's Day!!!

 

The Knights of Columbus Waukegan Council 731 is pleased to announce our 9th Annual Father’s Day Golf Outing on Saturday, June 15th, 2019.  This year’s event will be held at the beautifully remodeled Big Oaks Golf Course in Pleasant Prairie, Wisconsin, and will include various contests, raffles and prizes.  The event will be followed with a dinner that is included.

 

The focus for the Annual Father’s Day Golf Outing will be and always has been to raise money for Holy Family Food Pantry in Waukegan to assist Lake County families during the Thanksgiving and Christmas holidays. This partnership has resulted to date with over 3600 families being able to celebrate the holiday season with a warm meal. The need is still overwhelming, and our goal, with your support, is to add another holiday to the list and sponsor 700 meals this year.

 

We kindly ask for your support in reaching this goal by attending or donating to the Knights of Columbus Waukegan Council 731 and our Annual Father’s Day Golf Outing.

 

Whether as golfers ( a great day in the sun with friends and family), or as a sponsor, we would appreciate your patronage with this event. And trust us when we say that you do NOT need to be a great golfer!!! The registration form is attached.

 

Please contact me directly if you have any questions.

 

Thank you!!!

 

SK Larry Sobczak, Jr.

Grand Knight

Waukegan Council 731

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C: 847-736-7530

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2018 Knights of Columbus Free-throw Championship

January 20th, 2018

 

Well it was one fantastic day. We had a great turn out for our 1st Free-throw Championship in years. Not only from the athlete’s participating, but from our Brother Knights of Columbus that attended and assisted as well.

We had 18 boys and girls from the ages of 9 years old to 14 years old attend our event. The Athletics Department at St. Anastasia provided and ran a concession stand for the event. And we had 10 Brother Knights as well as 4 volunteers in attendance. The event ran from 10am check in till just about noon. We are very much looking forward to next year’s Championships.

 

The Champions from each age group are as follows:

 

Boys;

10 year old Champion Alijah Matus from St. Anastasia, 1st runner up Anthony Garcia from Most Blessed Trinity Academy

11 year old Champion Nickolas Miranda and 1st runner up Logan May both from St. Anastasia and they had to have a sudden death run off for the Championship

12 year old Champion Alejandro Cardova from Most Blessed Trinity Academy, no runner up

 

Girls;

9 year old Champion Faith Guerra, 1st runner up Sunshine Serrano both from St. Anastasia

10 year old Champion AJ Serrano from St. Anastasia, no runner up

11 year old Champion Leilani San Nicolas, 1st runner up Brianna Schueneman from St. Anastasia

13 year old Champion Lily Hinojosa from St. Anastasia, no runner up

14 year old Champion Kelsey Rosales from St. Anastasia, no runner up

 

The Champions are all moving forward to the District Championship to be held at the St. Patrick School Gymnasium, 15000 W. Wadsworth Road, Wadsworth, IL on Saturday February 10, 2018. Should the individual Champion not be able to attend the District Championship, the 1st runner up would go in their place. Check in time is 9:00 AM. The girl’s competition will begin at 9:30 and the boy’s competition will begin after the girls are finished. The Award Ceremony will follow after the boys are finished shooting.

The Father-Daughter Factor

Fact: Babies as young as six months whose fathers are present and active in the home score higher on mental development tests than babies whose fathers are not present and active.

Fact: Teenage girls who are close to their fathers are far less likely to become sexually active.

Fact: Teenage girls are twice as likely to stay in school if their fathers are involved in their lives.

Fact: Dads matter. A lot.

In her book, Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters (Ballantine Books), Dr. Meg Meeker, a pediatrician, uses these facts and more to make the case that few things matter more to a girl’s mental, physical and social development than her relationship with her father. Drawing on her 20-plus years of counseling teenage girls, she outlines what a father can do to strengthen or heal his relationship with his daughter and help her become a mature, healthy woman.

This interview by Emily Stimpson is reprinted with permission from the June 15, 2008 issue of Our Sunday Visitor.

OSV: Whether fathers like it or not, what do their daughters expect from them?

Dr. Meg Meeker: A daughter naturally wants to view her dad as a leader. She looks to him as a protector, as a provider. She wants to look up to him. Fathers have a tremendous power over their daughters. That's not just the way it’s supposed to be; that’s the way it is. The dad is really the daughter’s first love. He is the most important man in her life. His interactions with her set her up for how she’s going to relate to all other men and to God. That's a heavy load, but a wonderful truth. If she learns to like her dad, and she can trust him, she’ll have a much easier time trusting her husband and trusting God.

OSV: What do you think is the most common, albeit perhaps well-intentioned, mistake that most fathers make?

Meeker: Fathers dramatically underestimate the importance of themselves in their daughters’ lives. They withdraw much too quickly, doubt their significance and influence, and grossly misunderstand how very much their daughters need and want to have a good relationship with them.

OSV: What can the consequences of that withdrawal be?

Meeker: When a dad pulls out of a girl’s life, she flounders. Her self-esteem flounders. Her ability to have healthy relationships with other men flounders. Her sense of what she’s able to accomplish flounders. Particularly girls between the ages of 10 and 17 have a strong need for male attention, affirmation, affection and touch. If dad backs out, she’ll get what she needs from male friendships or from romantic sexual relationships. The No. 1 influence on a girl's self-esteem is affection from her dad. If you really want to boost a girl’s self-image, get the father to give her physical affection.

OSV: Being a good father also has a lot to do with being a good husband, doesn’t it?

Meeker: Definitely. Daughters watch their dads like hawks. They watch not only how he treats her, but also how he treats her mom. If she sees her father open doors for her mother, help clean up in the kitchen and is patient, she will take what she sees into her own marriage and, whether she likes it or not, consciously or unconsciously, reproduce that. Daughters learn how they should be treated by watching how their dad treats their mom.

OSV: Why should fathers not underestimate the importance of setting rules and expectations for their girls?

Meeker: So many fathers think that if they set boundaries, establish curfews, even make their daughters do chores, that they will alienate their daughters. But, in fact, just the opposite happens. Girls who end up in trouble are not the girls whose dads are heavy on boundaries. They’re girls whose fathers failed to do so. The key, of course, is that the rules need to be balanced with fun and pleasure in the dad-daughter relationship.

This is especially critical during the teenage years. If every time a father talks to his daughter he lays down the law, the daughter is not going to want to talk with him. Every conversation about a rule or a daughter’s behavior should be balanced by five parts pleasure and fun -- going to a movie, canoeing, talking about things besides rules.

OSV: But so many fathers are at a loss when it comes to talking with their daughters. How can a dad get his daughter to open up about what’s going on in her life?

Meeker: It starts with letting your daughter know you really want to hear what she has to say. One of the best ways to do that is to listen to her answers without interrupting. Ask, then sit and listen to her response. Whether you agree or disagree, don't respond the first time around. Revisit the conversation later if you need to.

It’s also important to remember that every conversation should not be a teaching conversation. That’s a big mistake a lot of fathers make. Ultimately, you have to approach these conversations with the long term in mind. You can’t expect your daughter to open up right away, but if you can communicate to her that you value what she says and thinks, you’ll have her ear after a couple of months.

OSV: In your book you stress the importance of fathers talking with their daughters about sex and about God -- two of the toughest topics for most dads to raise with their girls. Any tips on how to have those conversations?

Meeker: Don’t get hung up on depth and complexity. Keep it simple.

When a dad talks about religion or sex, he doesn’t need to go into the nitty-gritty. A daughter wants to know what her dad thinks about God and what he thinks she should do.

Those messages can be communicated simply by sharing his thoughts on what he thinks is good, by saying things like, “It’s really important that you're not sexually active until you're married,” or “Boy, it’s beautiful when a woman waits.”

That’s what a daughter wants to hear. Use simple language and ask very open-ended questions.

If a dad is uncomfortable asking what his daughter thinks about sex or religion or anything else for that matter, then he should ask what her friends think or what her friends are doing. That will give him an idea of what his daughter is up to.

 

http://www.fathersforgood.org/ffg/en/common_challenges/factor.html

A little history regarding the namesake of our Assembly; Bishop William J. Quarter

Bishop William J. Quarter

William J. Quarter (January 21, 1806 – April 10, 1848) was an Irish American prelate of the Roman Catholic Church. He was the first Bishop of Chicago (1844–1848). In 1848, Quarter died in Chicago at the age of 42.

Early years

William Quarter was born in Killurin, King's County, Ireland to Michael and Ann (née Bennet) Quarter. The third of four sons, he had three brothers: John, Walter and James; Walter and James also joined the priesthood, but the latter died before his ordination. He studied the classics at private academies in Tullamore from 1814 to 1822.

While preparing to enter Maynooth College, Quarter was visited by a priest who had served as a missionary in the United States. The young man was moved by the priest's stories of the dreadful plight of Catholics in America (many of whom were without priests, churches, or the sacraments), and resolved to dedicate himself to the missions there. Having obtained permission from Bishop James Warren Doyle, Quarter departed from Ireland in April 1822 and later landed at Quebec, Canada. Following his arrival, he was rejected at the seminaries of both the Archdiocese of Quebec and the Diocese of Montreal on account of his young age but, journeying southward, was finally accepted at Mount St. Mary's College in Emmitsburg, Maryland. While at Mount St. Mary's, he became professor of Greek and Latin, as well as sacristan, in 1823. He completed his theological studies in 1829 and then went to New York, where he was ordained a priest by Bishop John Dubois on September 19 of that year.

Quarter then served as a curate at St. Peter's Church in Manhattan, and ministered to the sick and dying during the cholera epidemic of 1832. He placed the children who had been orphaned by the epidemic under the care of the Sisters of Charity. In 1833 he was named pastor of St. Mary's Church on the Lower East Side, where he founded a parochial school. He also received Maximilian Oertel, a Lutheran minister, into the Catholic Church in 1840.

Episcopal ministry

On November 28, 1843, Quarter was appointed the first Bishop of the newly erected Diocese of Chicago, Illinois, by Pope Gregory XVI. He received his Episcopal consecration on March 10, 1844 from Bishop John Joseph Hughes, with Bishops Benedict Joseph Fenwick, S.J., and Richard Vincent Whelan serving as co-consecrators, at St. Patrick's Cathedral. Accompanied by his brother Walter (who later became vicar general), Quarter arrived in the Episcopal see of Chicago on May 5.

The Bishop completed St. Mary's Cathedral in 1845, and eliminated the diocese's $5,000 debt from his own resources and the contributions of members of his family. The founder of Catholic education in Chicago, he established University of Saint Mary of the Lake and Saint Xavier University, as well as the first parochial school. He also introduced into the diocese the Sisters of Mercy from Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, including Mary Francis Xavier Warde. He held the first diocesan synod and was the first American bishop to establish theological conferences. It was also due principally to Quarter's efforts that the Illinois General Assembly passed in 1845 the bill according to which the Bishop of Chicago was incorporated as a "corporation sole" with power to "hold real and other property in trust for religious purposes." During his four-year-long tenure, he founded 30 churches and ordained 29 priests.

Francis announces new global jubilee, the Holy Year of Mercy

Symbolically calling on the entire global Roman Catholic church to take up his papacy's central message of compassion and pardon, Pope Francis on Friday announced that he is convoking a jubilee year to be called the Holy Year of Mercy.

Saying he has "thought often about how the church can make more evident its mission of being a witness of mercy," the pope announced the new jubilee year during a Lenten penitential service in St. Peter's Basilica.

"I am convinced that the whole church -- that has much need to receive mercy because we are sinners — will find in this jubilee the joy to rediscover and render fruitful the mercy of God, with which we are all called to give consolation to every man and woman of our time," Francis said in announcing the year.

"Let us not forget that God pardons and God pardons always," the pope continued. "Let us never tire of asking for forgiveness."

"We entrust it as of now to the Mother of Mercy, because she looks to us with her gaze and watches over our way," Francis said. "Our penitential way, our way of open hearts, during a year to receive the indulgence of God, to receive the mercy of God."

The pope also said he wants the church to live the upcoming holy year "in the light" of Jesus' words in the Gospel of Luke: "Be merciful, just as your father is merciful."

A jubilee year is a special year called by the church to receive blessing and pardon from God and remission of sins. The Catholic church has called jubilee years every 25 or 50 years since the year 1300 and has also called special jubilee years from time to time, known as extraordinary jubilee years.

The last jubilee year was held in 2000 during the papacy of Pope John Paul II and was known as "the Great Jubilee." The last extraordinary jubilee year was held in 1983 to celebrate 1,950 years since the death and resurrection of Jesus.

Francis on Friday said the new jubilee would begin on this year's Catholic feast of the Immaculate Conception, celebrated Dec. 8. It will close on Nov. 20, 2016, the day celebrated that year as the feast of Christ the King.

Announcing the closing date, the pope added a new term to the title of Christ celebrated that day, also calling Jesus "the living face of the mercy of the father."

Francis said he has entrusted the organization of the jubilee year to the Pontifical Council for the New Evangelization "so that that they may animate it as a new stage of the journey of the church in its mission to bring to every person the gospel of mercy."

The jubilee year will formally open Dec. 8 with the opening of the Holy Door of St. Peter's Basilica at the Vatican. The other holy doors of basilicas around the world will then be opened as a sign of God's opening a new pathway to salvation.

Francis has made mercy a central theme of his papacy, speaking of it often in homilies and in his texts. His apostolic exhortation, Evangelii Gaudium ("The Joy of the Gospel"), uses the word 32 times.

The pope has also called two global meetings of Catholic bishops at the Vatican -- known as synods, with one being held last year and the next this October -- which have focused on issues of family life.

Those meetings are known to have discussed how the church might use its teachings on mercy to address sometimes difficult contemporary family situations, such as divorce and remarriage and same-sex unions.

In his homily at the penitential service Friday, Francis gave another wide-ranging reflection on the role of mercy and pardon in church teaching.

Recounting the Gospel reading of the day -- in which a woman described as sinful washes Jesus with her hair and tears -- Francis said, "Every gesture of this woman speaks of love and expresses her desire to have an unshakeable certainty in her life: that of being forgiven."

"And Jesus gives this certainty, welcoming her and demonstrating to her the love of God for her, truly for her," the pope said.

Continuing the story to talk about Simon, the Pharisee who owned the house, Francis said he was a "lord" who "cannot find the path of love."

For him, the pope said, "all is calculated, all [is] thought. He stands at the threshold of formality."

"It is an ugly thing, formal love," Francis continued. "It cannot be understood."

"The call of Jesus pushes each of us to never stop at the surface of things, especially when we are dealing with a person," the pope said later. "We are called to look beyond, to focus on the heart to see of how much generosity everyone is capable.

"No one can be excluded from the mercy of God," Francis continued, repeating: "No one can be excluded from the mercy of God!"

"The church is the house that welcomes all and refuses no one," the pope said. "Its doors remain wide open, so that those touched by grace can find the certainty of forgiveness."

"Better must be the love of the church expressed toward those who convert," he said.

After listening to the readings of the day and giving the homily at Friday's penitential service, the pope also heard some individual confessions, spending about 45 minutes in a confessional in St. Peter's with individuals.

The pontifical council, with Francis' backing, has called on all parishes around the world to remain open for confessions for 24 hours Friday through Saturday as possible.

[Joshua J. McElwee is NCR Vatican correspondent. His email address is jmcelwee@ncronline.org. Follow him on Twitter: @joshjmac.]

Our Lady of Tears Sculpture

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The Knights of Columbus have, since the killing of innocent babies was legalized in 1973, sought to
change the attitude of those who believe it is acceptable to choose to end the life of an unborn child. Brother
Knights continue to support this effort in many places and in many ways. One important way, to not only
remind people of this tragedy, but also to help those who had abortions, has been to erect sculptures or
monuments for the unborn. This important work of mercy is being done by Knights of Columbus Councils,
including Council 731, around the world.


Council 731 contributed funds to help build a pro-life monument to the unborn at Queen of Peace
Church in North Chicago, IL. The Council also funded a pro-life sculpture at Marytown in Libertyville, IL,
named Our Lady of Tears.


With the help of the Conventual Franciscan friars at Marytown, a sculpture was designed that represents
the belief that not only should we pray to Our Lady for the souls of the unborn child, but also for women who
had an abortion, and for women who are contemplating an abortion.


The seven foot marble sculpture and base, was carved in Italy out of Bianco Duro white marble. It was
commissioned through Daprato Rigali by Council 731 as a memorial of Council 731 100th Anniversary on
March 3, 2003.


The sculpture represents Our Lady, a young woman, and a baby. Our Lady, with a tear coming from her
eye, is sitting with one hand on the shoulder of the baby, and the other on the shoulder of the young woman.
The woman, kneeling by the side of Our Lady, sorrowfully is looking for forgiveness for what she has done.
The innocent child, confused as to what is happening, has one hand on the young woman, and is grasping the
finger of Our Lady with the other hand.


The sculpture sorrowfully tells the story of abortion, both from the loss of life of the unborn child, and
from the emotional impact on a woman who has had an abortion. Our Lady is shedding a tear for the loss of the
baby’s life, and for the woman because of what she has done. Our Lady, by putting her arm around the woman,
is reminding her that she loves her and that God loves her and will forgive her for what she has done.
Our Lady of Tears sculpture is at Marytown, 1600 W. Park Avenue, Hwy 176, Libertyville, IL, in a
beautiful garden setting, where one can come to visit and meditate, pray for those lost children, pray for
forgiveness, or pray for help and support.


Let all our Brother Knights and their families continue to pray for the end of abortion and for the
thousands of souls of aborted children.


The following prayer, composed by the daughter of SK Joseph Leccesi PGK, was cast in bronze and
placed in the garden by the sculpture.


Our Lady of Tears


Our Lady of Tears, help us pray for the unborn souls, given to you before their time,
pray for all the children here on earth, pray for all the women who need your guidance.
Our Lady of Tears, guide us so these may be the last tears shed.


SK Joseph D. Synovic PGK
Pro-Life Chairman
Knights Of Columbus, Council